We are both native Texans, born and raised in central Texas, and have been together for twelve years. Our little family of three is rooted in faith, and God has blessed us with a strong marriage, a joyful 4-year-old son who fills our home with laughter, and two golden retrievers who add even more love (and hair) to our days. Family is everything to us, and we cherish time spent cooking at home, playing outside, gathering with loved ones, and traveling together. Our greatest hope is to provide a safe, joyful, and Christ-centered home where children know they are deeply loved, prayed for, and supported.
We met on a cold December night in Gruene, Texas, on a semi-blind date that felt straight out of a Hallmark movie with every tree wrapped in Christmas lights. Matthew arrived over an hour late (due to traffic), praying that Spencer would still be there upon his arrival… she was. We had dinner with plans for a concert at the legendary Gruene Hall afterwards. But as luck would have it, the concert was sold out, so instead we spent the evening walking through town, talking for hours, and getting to know one another. What began as an unexpected night quickly became the start of something special.
Our relationship grew through seasons of long distance as Matthew’s job took him to Atlanta and then New York while Spencer finished college. After three years apart, Matthew moved back to Texas, and we were engaged shortly after settling into life together in Austin. Those years taught us patience, trust, and the value of choosing one another daily.
Spencer is full of joy, creativity, and compassion. The middle child and only girl, she balances a gentle spirit with a competitive edge and loves creating meaningful moments for our family. Matthew is steady, loyal, and deeply faithful. The oldest of three siblings, he leads our family with calm strength, a love for the outdoors, and a servant’s heart. Together, we are grateful for the life God has built and the family we continue to grow.
We are very close with both of our families. Spencer’s family (her parents, two brothers, and their families) all live within ten minutes of each other, so we see them often. Jones is especially close with his cousins. They live on our street and attend the same school. Spencer’s family loves to be together. Our favorites include spending summers swimming at her parents’ pool, and they always show up at school events, gymnastics, and soccer practice! They are simply present. I am also very close with my grandmother, Mimi, who adores being a great-grandmother and can’t wait to welcome another little one into our family!
Matthew’s family lives two hours away, but we see them quite often, and Jones loves to spend weekends with his “Lola and Opie”. We vacation with them every year in Seaside, Florida for some fun in the sun. The majority of Matthew’s extended family also lives in the same city as his parents, making holidays and gatherings very special, very crowded, and very LOUD. His grandmother, Nannie, has 15 great-children and counting!
Beyond our immediate families, we are surrounded by a wonderful community through our church and close friends. Jones sees many of these families and their children as additional aunts, uncles, and cousins. We are grateful not just for the number of people in our lives, but for the depth of those relationships. Playdates are endless, and we have an abundance of help nearby when we need an extra set of hands. While Jones is never short on friends to play with outside of our home, it would mean the world to him to have a sibling to do life with every day… he might even share his Hot Wheels. *maybe*
Our happy place. We live in a family-friendly neighborhood with highly ranked schools, kids ride bikes, and neighbors wave as they pass by. Our community has lots of parks, fishing ponds, bike trails, tennis courts, basketball courts, playgrounds, and splash pads.
We are also in the process of building our forever home just a few minutes away on a beautiful piece of property filled with large heritage oak trees. Nestled in a golf community filled with young families, there are endless amenities: golf course, pool, tennis courts, trails, ponds, and more. While it will be bittersweet leaving our first family home, we are excited to foster new relationships with neighbors and continue to have our community of friends and family nearby.
We cannot wait to teach our children to ride bikes in our driveway, explore in nature, camp outside, and one day build a tree house in the backyard with Daddy.
Thank you for considering our family to love and treasure your child. We know we cannot fully understand all that you are walking through, but we deeply respect the strength and love it takes to consider an adoption plan. Your courage and selfless love for your little one do not go unnoticed. Please know we are already praying for you, for your baby, and for the relationship that may unfold if you choose us. As you have scrolled, our hope is that you see the love we are ready to pour out, not only for your child but also for you. We pray you catch a glimpse of who we are, our hearts for adoption, and our love as a family. We will continue to cover you in prayer and overwhelming peace throughout this journey. God bless you. With love, Matthew, Spencer & Jones