I can’t keep my baby! Here’s how to place a baby for adoption

For some women who find themselves unexpectedly pregnant, the next steps are very clear. They know immediately that they want to place a baby for adoption. Many are surprised to learn that not only are we here to match them with an adoptive family, but also to provide extensive resources and help for birth mothers in Texas. If you find yourself saying “I can’t keep my baby,” but don’t know how the adoption process really works, here are the basics that you need to understand.

Step 1. Options counseling

Parenting may be right for you and your child, or adoption may be a better fit. Our professional counselors will help you explore all of your options, sure that you are comfortable with your decision – whatever it may be. We are here to support you.

Step 2. Needs assessment

Mothers have extensive support through our agency during pregnancy – medically, legally and financially. If you decide to place a baby for adoption, your counselor will work to understand your needs and how we can best support you. This might include getting insurance, finding a doctor for prenatal care, and securing safe place to live if you need one. Certain other expenses will be covered to ensure that you and your baby stay healthy and safe throughout your pregnancy.

Step 3. Choose a family

Our agency has a large and growing list of diverse, qualified Texas families who are prepared to welcome a child home. If you choose adoption, you will be presented with families to choose from who fit the dreams you have for your child.

Step 4. Choosing and building the relationship

Deciding “I can’t keep my baby” doesn’t mean that you have no control over what happens next. You will always have the option to be involved in your child’s life. Some mothers choose to see photos of their child, while others want phone calls or visits. Some may decide they want no future contact. We ensure that your adoption documents respect your choices.

Step 5. Birth and help to place a baby for adoption

Your counselor can be your advocate at the hospital when you deliver and can coordinate with the hospital staff and adoptive family, ensuring that you are comfortable. You must wait 48 hours after delivery before signing legal papers, and have the right to change your mind about adoption up to that point.

Step 6. After placement

After you place a baby for adoption, we provide you with lifelong counseling and support services, including coordinating visits with your child if you choose modern open adoption. We provide the resources you need to work through any emotions you experience after delivery and beyond.

Place a baby for adoption and get peace of mind

If you are already thinking, “I can’t keep my baby,” know that we are here to support you. We would be honored to walk with you through this difficult journey and help you turn an expected pregnancy into a joyful gift of love. Contact us to learn more.